Monday, January 12, 2009

Povestea de azi: Corina si Ionut


Corina mi-a trimis un e-mail intitulat scurt "NOI doi".Povestea lor, desi lunga, a spus-o in cateva randuri: "Povestea noastra?......ne cunoastem din clasa I-a, de fapt, am fost colegi de clasa pana in clasa 12, am fost vecini...cand am ajuns la facultate ne-am mutat impreuna.
Dupa 10 ani am hotarat sa facem pasul mult asteptat---SA NE CASATORIM!!

Anul trecut (2008) in iulie pe 26 am avut o nunta mica, cu oameni alesi...si a fost..superb!!"
Le dorim casa de piatra,copii frumosi si multa fericire!

You'll work harder than you ever imagined.

Early on, when people say, "Marriage takes work," you assume "work" means being patient when he forgets to put down the toilet seat. In your naivete, you think that you will struggle to accommodate some annoying habit, like persistent knuckle cracking or flatulence.

If only it were that easy. Human beings, you may have noticed, are not simple creatures. Your man has mysterious, unplumbed depths -- and from where he sits, you're pretty complicated, too. You have to learn each other the same way that you once learned earth science or world geography. And getting married doesn't mean you're done -- it just means you've advanced to graduate-level studies. That's because every time you think you've mastered the material, he'll change a bit. And so will you. As two people grow and evolve, the real work of marriage is finding a way to relate to and nurture each other in the process.

"It's like losing weight," says Andrea Harden, 45, of Buffalo, NY. "You want it to be a one-time deal. You lost it, now just live. But then you learn it's a lifestyle. That's marriage. The effort is a forever thing." So don't be too hard on yourself -- or him -- on those days when you feel like you're struggling through remedial math.

You're smart. You know life is no storybook. But admit it:

Somewhere deep in your subconscious lurk romantic visions of Cinderella, or maybe Julia Roberts. The images may be sketchy and a little outdated, but you can still make out the silhouette of the bride and Prince Charming riding off into the sunset.In real life, sometimes your Disney fairy tale ends up feeling more like a Wes Craven horror flick -- and you're the chick who keeps falling down and screaming for her life. I've been there. Let's face it, marriage is not for the faint of heart. You want to believe your pure love for each other will pull you through. And it does. But it ain't always pretty.

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